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Don’t Stop Writing's avatar

Much of my life has been minimizing myself to suit others, to avoid making others uncomfortable with my loud, blunt, vulnerable self. I am relearning myself, taking the time to discover who I am and what I want.

Thank you for your post, it reinforces what I already know to be true: that growing softly is valid and honest and true. I’m on the right path.

Someday, I will reap the rewards of the struggle I’m experiencing now.

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Smae🌸's avatar

proud of u. we will come “home” to ourselves too. the transition is hard no? but we believe deep down in our souls that the other side is beautiful. we are not avoiding ourselves now and what we need to confront with ourselves to come home to us. that’s something special. that is love. excited for usss im 29 single no kids, transitioning to 30s in 7 months. awkward stage but my soul is healing. i know u too. 🌸🌸🌸

flowers and sparklessss to you 🌸🌸🌸🌸✨✨✨✨

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Smae🌸's avatar

we brave for this. we are not waiting 20years from now to deal with this, that’s love.

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Don’t Stop Writing's avatar

It’s difficult each and every day, but some days are less hard than others. :)

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Smae🌸's avatar

there will come a time that there will be less hard days and mostly healed and good days exist

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Maia V. Carpenter's avatar

I love this! Thank you sis.

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